Have YOU figured out one of the most important things to consider in life – your Q-T-R Factor? It’s a straightforward way of putting ones life goals into perspective and is well worthy of consideration. I have figured mine out, and I’m not the same!
Profound Outlook on Life
Sometimes, just as suddenly as one is thrust into a scary situation, a shining light seemingly comes out of the blue. In my case, it was a casual (and somewhat sideways) search on the Interweb that brought me to this profound way of looking at my life. You know how Google works; occasionally search results aren’t spot on to your query, but I’m OK with a happy discovery like this one being tossed into the mix. Geez, it’s almost like Google purposely plants these things to get us all coming back to search for more – or get lost on something else ;-)
I consider myself somewhat of a fan of a gentleman by the name of Mike Joyce, the CEO of Hargrave Yachts. Well, more appropriately, I should say a fan of his style. I think it was a few years ago when we were looking into a winter escape to Fort Lauderdale for the first time that I initially came across some YouTube videos for Hargrave Yachts, who are headquartered in Lauderdale.
As part of my happy diversion into the world of big yachts and the acres of gelcoat that includes, I found myself impressed with Mr. Joyce’s down to earth, plain talking style as he discussed the ‘Hargrave approach’ to selling boats. I was hooked. After all, here’s a guy sitting on multimillion dollar yachts but making the viewer – me – feel like he was just another guy talking about the joys of boating. I mean, this stuff was really compelling. By the time I was done watching a few of his videos, I felt like I should be on the next plane south to buy one of these big boats. And he hadn’t even shown me around ONE boat!
OK, so we weren’t (and aren’t) in the position to actually buy one of those beauties. And with our current plans to slow down and take it easy, it’s more than likely that the Boogaboo Crew won’t be seriously perusing the used mega-yacht market any time soon. But hey, never say never. . .
Meeting The Man
That said, I wouldn’t mind at least meeting Mr. Joyce, shaking his hand and having the opportunity to let him know what a great job it is he’s doing. I actually saw him at the Yacht And Brokerage Show In Miami (not to be confused with the ‘Miami BOAT Show’, which takes place in an entirely different venue) this past February, but he was busy with ‘real’ clients and I didn’t want to disturb him. Next time.
QTR. ‘Quality Time Remaining’
So, you are asking yourself, what the heck does all this have to do with that Q-T-R Factor that I asked you about? Well, if you’ve never had to look at yours, this may come as a real eye opener, so sit down.
Last week, I was looking up info on the Fort Lauderdale International Boat Show (FLIBS) and saw a video by, you guessed it, Hargrave Yachts. Again it was starring non other than Mike Joyce.
As part of the hook to get prospective clients to come to the show, he recalled a talk he had with a colleague (Dudley Dawson, formerly of Hatteras Yachts and current technical editor for Yachting Magazine) about this Q-T-R, or ‘Quality Time Remaining’. In other words, what is the expected extent of your quality time that is remaining in your life – and how will you make the most of that time? Good marketing angle, Mike!
Applying The Message
Boat shows aside, that basic question was suddenly and very bluntly slammed into our faces not too long ago and resulted in putting everything into a new perspective for me and my lovely Anchor Girl. Besides being a little older than we used to be, our future years have become something a lot different than we had ever even thought about. To be diagnosed with a condition that was straight out of left field initially left us scared, confused and for me, pissed right off.
Now that we have had almost three years since the first suggestion of my MS, we are in a far better place, emotionally. To put it bluntly, we can no longer ‘expect’ to simply carry on the way we have before all this. Some would argue that we could, like most do, but not us – not ME. We have had too many great times over the past few years and we aren’t going to be robbed of the opportunity to experience even more and that’s why we are making dramatic changes for our better good. It is amazing how things like money, and plain old STUFF suddenly loose their importance completely. And it’s awesome! It frees our thoughts to those of the new memories we are going to make through our new adventures :-)
Whatever your current life situation is, whether still young or not so much anymore, I urge you to consider where you might be in the all too soon future and how you will ENJOY that time. We all have the freedom to make choices that will make us happy in what we are and what we are experiencing. For us, it will be enjoying sunsets on our boat in the summers, and walks along southern beaches in winters. For you, well, you will have to figure that out on your own. But do it while you still have a chance to make a free choice. . .
So, when I do get around to meeting Mr. Joyce in person, I look forward to thanking him for relating that story and putting it into terms that many can relate to. I hope most will ponder, take stock and ultimately make positive, forward thinking changes in their lives to get the most out of the quality years that we all have left.
And if that involves living on a boat, so be it. And I know just the guy that would be happy to sell you a new Hargrave ;-)